Ineffable Ontological Detanglement .: Introspective Assistance & Mental Analysis Manual
"Control issues" is the label level two cognitive functioning uses to normalize and justify into the realm of interaction the idea of being an out of control ego enforcer ego alterator. It is not within the same feelings as the desire to be in control of the situation, it's a demented ego invested subconscious obsession with the concept of self snap. It creates a wall of you don't get to talk to it you don't get to stop it, you give it the normalizing label it does not make the person think about their problems it gives them an excuse to carry on. It's called control issues, I'm doing a thing that's normal, I do my thing, I say "I can have control issues." then the other person says "I'm sorry." then we move on, I do it again and again and again.
Most of you don't realize you have control issues, every single ego invested person has control issues. Right but we place the label on people when it becomes pathological. Becomes... Pathological. Becomes. The rest of us can barely tell the difference between one of you labeled control issues and one of the rest of you. It seems it's basically only the people who are capable of fighting the overwhelming urge to snap on your subconscious obsession with the concept of self to the point of establishing the complex system of other life governing are the people who get to escape the label, however most of you are within this system at people it just isn't obvious enough that anybody can point it out.